Saturday, November 13, 2010

 Pseudo aristocracy







 Whenever you party or celebrate an occasion you are exposed to  large group of friends ,colleagues  who follow similar profession,alike interest and you can say in forums like parties tend to share the same kind of space..

Each time I go to a party or host a party instead of the well preserved  visual  lively countenance,which I struggle to achieve my soul gets more dampened  ,dissuaded sometimes..

The chliche’word page three culture has invaded  our lives so much that those who don’t follow it are probably  considered dumb  "asses’’.,who would get people shriveling  away from them leaving them in their own shell more withered ,shriveled..


Btw coming back if you r the host be prepared your party is going to be a ground for some to settle scores of their  biased beliefs ,while for some a good forum to flash their achievements and intellectual rigour .Few might preen airily their  assets {referring to physical as well as material assets).Though physical assets r more obviously flaunted by the  discerned fairer sex via clothes viz a viz shoes,accessories purses and so on andon….can be listless







I find it strange how some people can only share resonating views with their bosses or probably their bosses wives?It feels so damn shallow sometimes to see these people focused and batting endlessly to impress the arbiters  to achieve their veiled intent…and would care a damn to even react at the plight of an under  privileged being  when the boss is not around?

The ruse of cleverly choreographed and executed roles of these people makes me wonder isn’t the bug of pseudocracy  crawling insidiously  and eating away our real selves ,maybe its too impractical or philosophic thinking ,but aren’t we all falling pray to the temptation,like Adam and eve fell

Friends are few those who really will care what about  others are they stalkers like you who want to promote themselves ,by either throwing such parties or coming to them. Even  children are trained to follow the cult trying to be super cute to  seniors  kin and dismissing other as non entities .


I always thought children are associated with innocence {of course  not talking about toddlers and infants},who ll be always will remain as innocent as  flowers.

The stereotype mentality of following the noveau rich only has made us ape blindly . The desperate efforts one makes sometimes is so funny as no body wants to be left out  only those who more witty take the lead ….

The maze game hunting for keys either to success or other personal goal keeps us running running in endless pursuit fast and sometimes faster than others .And we  smart enough as we are exonerate ourselves shifting  all the blame on culture,goals ,materialistic pursuits. 


We all want to reach the top whether we step on others heads to do so, .making our children trail our examples damn it who cares morals, principles?..as long as u succeed.

I always wonder when was the last time we sat down with our parents?holding hands of your sick ,granny whose love so unconditional whose blessings so pure and for whom you are achiever in life irrespective of what you do. Who doesn’t care u earn dollars or pounds ,dine with Mr xyz or yxz,who still wants you to read her Geeta or Ramayana,who still hugs you with her frail arms who is far far away from today's pseudo aristocratic culture ,and truly content the way she is .She does'nt have to blow her own trumpet to get on top of the ladder you and me are climbing.She does'nt have to sound exotic to people who are lesser  placed in life than her.


Because she does not follow the mantra of todays success-""Psuedo Aristocracy""